You are welcome here.
Surrender to Pleasure: Trauma-Informed Bodywork for Brave, Tender Humans.
This is a space for you to feel, rest, explore, grieve, heal and expand — a space to remember who you really are.
I know pleasure to be a portal to healing.
“I can’t imagine being in safer hands. No matter what comes up it is greeted without judgement and explored. Sometimes it’s sexy, sometimes it’s raw and sad, sometimes it’s just pure bliss.“
Anon
Who I am
I am a nurturing caregiver and guide, not a traditional escort or gigolo.
I offer trauma‑informed bodywork and intimate, sensual touch designed to help you leave everyday worries behind and reconnect with your true self.
Clients say, “I feel so safe when I’m in your arms.” These arms can hold you physically and emotionally so that you can surrender to the impulse of pleasure – your pleasure – wherever it may lead.
If you’re craving depth, softness, truth, and real support in your intimacy journey — welcome.
“I felt expanded, enlivened and spent. What a beautiful journey for me; to be able to surrender into new experiences, to be held and honoured, to have all of me – from my tears, my wildness , my pain and my laughter – held, witnessed, stroked and loved. And ohh… such pleasure!” – Anon
Who I Work With
I support women, non‑binary, trans and disabled people who struggle with physical intimacy, pleasure and sexuality.
My trauma‑informed approach and emphasis on communication and consent create a space for both healing and pleasure.
I also work with men, non-sexually, around fears of physical intimacy with other men (the fear of male violence affects us all!).
What To Expect
In our sessions, you’ll find a judgment‑free space where you can leave the world and its worries behind. I’ll guide you to a place of safety in your body and bring you home to yourself.
I believe pleasure can be a portal to healing.
I’m here to be your guide. Together we’ll explore where your pleasure may lead.
“Each time we have a session I feel met in ways I’ve never been met before… I am meeting and integrating parts of myself that I had banished. I feel more grounded, secure and whole because of this process with you” – Anon
What our time together will look like
> THE PHYSICAL EXPERIENCE:
We’ll explore your wants, hopes and intentions. There will be no demands. Only a space of safety and intimacy where you can surrender.
I’ll remind you that this is your time. I’ll encourage you to speak your desires and will hear them without judgment.
Where there are no words, you can guide me with your hands. I will support you to honour your boundaries, just as I will honour my own.
What Our Time Together Will Feel Like
> THE EMOTIONAL EXPERIENCE:
I can witness to and hold your deepest feelings… of anger, of grief, of shame.
My lived experience has helped me see the shadow in others, the parts we may feel ashamed of, or embarrassed by, and the often limiting beliefs we carry with us.
I can support you in releasing whatever needs to be expressed.
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