Clients ask me: “Who’s holding me, when I’m holding everyone else?”
Where You Get to Be Fully Met & Fully You.
Designed for those who are constantly giving (healers, teachers and leaders) – my immersive experiences offer a haven to release burnout and come back to yourself.
WE ALL NEED TO BE HELD, FROM TIME TO TIME, IN SAFE SURRENDER.
“After 24 hours with Bear, I felt expanded, enlivened and spent. What a beautiful journey for me; to be able to surrender into new experiences, to be held and honoured, to have all of me – from my tears, my wildness , my pain and my laughter – held, witnessed, stroked and loved. And ohh… such pleasure!”
S.J.
“WHO’S HOLDING me WHEN I’M HOLDING EVERYONE ELSE?” I will!
I’ve heard this lament many times on my travels. Is this you?
Are you burnt out from constantly caring for others, even when it’s your life’s purpose?
Do you long for a space where you can be held? Where you can surrender? Where you can be nourished and fill your lamp with oil?
The care you give others? You deserve to receive that same care too!
THIS IS MY OFFERING TO YOU
Through my work in conscious kink and sacred sexuality, I’ve discovered my purpose in supporting others.
I attract space holders – from Tantra teachers and Yoga instructors to academics and business leaders – those who see in me an equal and a safe harbour.
We all need to be held and nourished. Allow me to hold you.
What I Offer
Sessions
Typically 3‑ or 4‑hour sessions designed to create a space for connection and surrender.
Immersives
Bespoke 24‑hour or weekend experiences—starting with welcoming rituals, meaningful activities, and ending with grounding and gentle reactivation.
Extras
Ritual baths, soothing bedtime stories, comforting spooning sessions, or a worry‑free dinner date where all details are taken care of.
“BEING with Bear was this return into a simple, light, soft and gentle state of fulfilment.
His presence is special… one you can safely melt into. Where you can feel held, spoiled, invited with all your heart. A true service to your soul.” – F.S.
Want to know more…?
What might an immersive look like?
A weekend immersive might begin with a welcoming meal and connecting play on a Friday night, followed by a Saturday of activities (activating or relaxing as you need) for full body and mind relaxation, and conclude with a Sunday morning of gentle re‑activation, grounding, lunch, and farewell.
Additional options
> Bathing Ritual: Enjoy a candle-lit bath prepared to your liking, complete with soft flannels, sensual head massage, shampooing, and drying with warm towels while being held in softness and love.
> Bedtime Rituals: Be tucked in with playful or soothing bedtime stories.
> Spoon & Stroke: Experience being spooned and gently stroked to sleep and woken with soft kisses.
> Dinner Date: Let me lead and care for all details (at a pre‑agreed restaurant) so that you can simply enjoy the evening.
> Darker Desires: You might perhaps desire something darker; to be collared or led in a different way, fully surrendering through the night and through the day
If this speaks to you, please get in touch.
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