“This is my purpose”
Completed Trainings & CPD
I am a life-long learner. Learning is growth for me – so I list here both my relevant professional training along with my COMMITMENT to ongoing Continuing Professional Development (CPD).
This work is my purpose. Personal transformation my path.
“… [He] brings love, empathy and devotion to his work. He knows his stuff. He is educated. He is practiced. He is kind. He is passionate. He is caring. He is willing to go there.“
Charlie
relevant trainings
> Completion of the one year Compassionate Inquiry Professional Training, with Gabor Maté (2023 to 2024)
> Urban Tantra Professional Training, with Barbara Carrellas (2022)
> Shadow Tantra Professional Training, with Seani Love (2021)
> Completion of the One Year, Continuation and Post-graduate Course in Psychotherapy with Spectrumtherapy, London (2012 to 2015)
Personal Development & CPD
> Introduction to Esalen Massage – with Nina Ottenheym (2025)
> Introduction to Transformative Justice Circles – ACSB Ethics Committee (2025)
> Moving & Handling People in Health & Social Care – High Speed Learning (2024)
> Compassionate Inquiry, with Gabor Maté – Self-study course (2022)
> Compassionate Inquiry meets IFS (Internal Family Systems), with Gabor Maté & Dick Schwartz – Sounds True (2022)
> Technique’s for Erotic Pain Processing, with Lee Harrington – Karada House (2022)
> Leela Life Training, Osho Leela, Dorset (2019 to present)
> Completion of Levels 1 to 7 at the Human Awareness Institute – HAI (2012 to 2019)
> Assisted on the Family Constellations Workshop on Love, Relationships and Longing, run by the Psychosynthesis Trust (2017)
> Three-part Spectrum Sexuality Programme: Basic, Intermediate and Advanced with Spectrumtherapy, London (2010)
COACHING (Talk therapy)
For singles, couples, and polycules navigating intimacy, non-monogamy, and masculinity. Tailored sessions that meet you where you are.
BODYWORK (Touch Therapy)
Trauma-informed bodywork from safe touch to sensual play and conscious kink. Focused on consent, nervous system regulation, and healing through pleasure.
Writing & Activism
Including my book, FEMINISM WILL MAKE A MAN OUT OF YOU! (due 2026) – a personal and political journey exploring masculinity, patriarchy, and healing in sex and relationships.
THE WAITING LIST
Be the first to hear about news on the forthcoming book Feminism Will Make a Man Out of You!, with book extracts, previews and Bear Phillips events.
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