I am open to receiving any feedback, whether positive or critical.

We may have worked together in person, or we may have only been in each other’s periphery, but we still affect and impact each other.

I want to be a safe male presence in the world.

And I know, however much I might want that, accidents can and do happen.

We all have shadows and blind spots, and I am committed to taking responsibility for any harm I may cause.

Either way, I would be glad to hear from you.

If you were to use the contact fields below, I can assure you that only I would see any message you might send, and I commit to responding within 5 working days.

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Other Options for Feedback

If, for whatever reason, you felt uncomfortable communicating with me directly, then I have provided below the contacts of peers who I know, trust and respect, who I am committed to having difficult conversations with and for whom I know harm-reduction and the safety of our community to be a priority.

They have agreed to speak to me, individually or together – depending on the circumstance – and to agree with me an appropriate course of action to provide any redress required.

Thank you for reading!

If you would feel more comfortable giving feedback about me to someone else, here are three alternative contacts.

Please know that all have agreed to maintain confidentiality should you request it.

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Fennel Waters: The Fenwitch (she/ her):

Witch, Relationship Coach and Director of the Vermilion sex-positive community.

[ Contact “Fennel Waters” on Facebook, or by email: fennelwaters@hotmail.com ]

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Kirstine Weaver (they/ them):

Queer Somatic Coach and Certified Sexological Bodyworker.

[ Contact “Kirstine Weaver” on Facebook, or by email: kirstine.m.weaver@gmail.com ]

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Sasha Damjanovski (he/ him):

Conscious Kink Practitioner and Intimacy Coach – known across a number of sex-positive communities.

[ Contact “Sasha Damjanovski” on Facebook, or by email: sashacd@orev.co.uk ]