
BEAR PHILLIPS | The Feminist Love Coach
I am an intimacy and relationships coach who overcame deep-seated shame to create a life filled with pleasure, love, and personal empowerment. I’m here to help you do the same.
LIVE YOUR BEST LIFE – AUTHENTICALLY, PASSIONATELY & UNAPOLOGETICALLY.
Intimacy and Relationship Coach
I’m also a proud feminist, bringing my hard-won experience in redefining masculinity to the worlds of dating and desire.
Once a shy, awkward introvert burdened with shame about my body and my sexual desires – and feeling never enough, isolated, and deeply unhappy – I discovered how to live with more pleasure, love, and joy than I ever imagined possible.
Though the journey wasn’t easy, it inspires my work: to offer a guiding hand on this wild ride to help you live your best life.
My work is insured with BGi(UK) and Foyht (the Association for Professional Therapists & Practitioners.



Ways to work with me:
I offer personalised coaching sessions – online or at my Brighton studio – that address everything from practical guidance to deep emotional healing. Every session is tailored to your needs in a nonjudgmental and compassionate space.
Join my occasional workshops on subjects like embodied consent, pleasure, touch, and conscious kink. I also collaborate with inspiring facilitators from my travels. Follow me on social media for the latest updates.
Read my blog on Substack and follow my YouTube Channel: DATING+DESIRE.
Discover my memoir, FEMINISM WILL MAKE A MAN OUT OF YOU! – a manifesto, memoir, and self-help guide exploring healing, sexual freedom, and personal liberation.
I can help you with:
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“I can’t even tell you how instrumental you’ve been in my recent life turnaround… I’m glad that I reached out and I’m glad it was you. You’ve helped me more than you will ever know!”
Join me!
Join my mailing list for monthly Substack musings on life, love and pleasure, with previews, events and occasional extracts from my forthcoming book Feminism Will Make a Man Out of You!
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I offer Presence. Love. Acceptance.
Have questions or want to explore how I can support you?



