ABOUT ME

Intimacy Coach & Touch Therapist

THIS WORK IS MY PURPOSE

You don’t need to be fixed. You need space to feel, explore, and reclaim. I did! I learnt how to drop the masks and step into a life of love rooted in authenticity.

“I’ve never been with anyone that was so deliciously intent on making ME feel heard, sexy, utterly orgasmic and loved.“

Anon

MY JOURNEY OF SELF-DISCOVERY

I am both a lover and a wounded healer – someone who has healed his personal wounds and now feels called to support others.

My work is informed by my own experience with trauma and my commitment to helping others heal.

This journey of self-discovery and understanding is a lifelong path for me.

MY Experience & Trainings

I am a lifelong learner and have invested in both my personal and professional development through therapy, workshops, and specialised training.

I completed the year-long professional training in Compassionate Inquiry (2024) with Gabor Maté, building on my training in humanistic and person-centred psychotherapy with Spectrumtherapy (2015).

I have also trained in Urban Tantra with Barbara Carrellas and in Shadow Tantra with Seani Love at the School of Erotic Mysteries. For more on my training and qualifications, click here.

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“[He] brings love, empathy and devotion to his work. He knows his stuff. He is educated. He is practiced. He is kind. He is passionate. He is caring. He is willing to go there.“ – Charlie

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MY IDENTITIES

I am a cishet presenting able-bodied male, but I’m also polyamorous, sex-positive and a proud queer advocate.

My mixed heritage and immigrant background enrich my perspective, and my journey with AuDHD has taught me to embrace my unique strengths.

Once an architect, designer, and internationally exhibited artist, I now channel my creativity and expertise into transformative coaching.

Acknowledging PRIVILEGE

I recognise that as a person born male, and presenting as both white and heterosexual, I have privilege.

These expressions have afforded me more opportunities and rights than many in this world, and continue to do so.

I am committed to ongoing awareness around my privilege, using it responsibly in the work that I do and the way I do it.

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TRAINING & CPD

For a continually updated page of my training, CPD and professional development workshops, please follow this link here.

FEEDBACK & ACCOUNTABILITY

It feels important to me to have some mechanism for feedback and for being held accountable for my actions. It is my intention to always act with integrity, but accidents can and do happen. To this end, I have created a page for Feedback & Accountability, which can be accessed here.

THE WAITING LIST

Be the first to hear about news on the forthcoming book Feminism Will Make a Man Out of You!, with book extracts, previews and Bear Phillips events.

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I offer Presence. Love. Acceptance.

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THIS WORK IS MY PURPOSE

You don’t need to be fixed. You need space to feel, explore, and reclaim. I did! I learnt how to drop the masks and step into a life of love rooted in authenticity.